One of the major issues in the United States today is the impact of false accusations. Simply having a record of being taken to court for domestic violence, false rape or anything else involving abuse can ruin a person’s life. Similar to our recent post on choosing friends a real person of integrity will also shoot down close friends if they are venturing down the wrong path.
Lets take a look at how quickly a bad decision can be shot down.
Off the bat it’s easy to recognize someone who is losing power in a relationship. You should immediately let them vent through their situation and explain how they feel so they are more likely to recognize an emotional decision. Unlike their other friends you should have a history of being straight forward, even being blunt is better than coating everything in frosting. You don’t want “friendzszs” who will agree with you even when you’re in the wrong. We go back and forth about how to get her to relax and the conversation quickly switches to frustration and anger a negative mindset which does nothing for anyone.
In case you are wondering at the top comment, the rule of thumb if you’re going to live a player lifestyle, avoid burning women as well. There is no need for that. Everyone does it once and a while. Finally, save all text messages to clear your name in worse case situations. Lets move on.
The anger comes up quickly where the idea of filing a report comes to mind. Immediately shoot the idea down. This is unacceptable for both men and women. If you’re getting heartbroken or are down, there is only one solution, recover or quit.
You are not special and you’ve seen this before you’ve been here before. You allow more information to be spilled…
At this point the conversation is over. Maybe it’s naive but it is our belief that people in general make more emotionally charged decisions than they do hate filled attacks.
This comment applies to men and women, you don’t hurt/ruin a person’s life with a web of lies. If you’re going to be alplayer, do not drag a person along, be honest like this person. If your friend is going to make a bad decision, tell them it is a bad decision.
In short, own your life and be accountable. It’s the only way to live.
