A non-abrasive centerpiece: Over my course in life I’ve developed affection for smoking hookah. I often found that smoking and drinking wine provoked thought. The device itself is steeped in history with roots in Persia circa 1400 A.D. With history comes the beauty of the device often intricately designed with blown glass to a style of your choice. While this is a device that I am fond of, it has quickly become a device I have shared with others. Here is the important part… Often during the course of the night there are times when you want to ask a target to come back to your place after you’ve developed rapport and strong (sometimes ambiguous) body language signals. However, it is rather too risky for the common person to be so direct. Instead, ask the target to come back to your place to smoke hookah. This is very inviting, unique and non-aggressive way to entice a target to spend more time with you. An invitation in this matter will prove to have a higher success rate in getting the target through your door. If you actually make it to the hookah (vs. directly to your bed), the experience of smoking becomes fun. You ask the target what flavors they most enjoy and let them pick. While the hookah is heating, fetch them a drink (I find champagne or white wine to be a nice wind-down). Once the hookah is going, sit close and relax. Chat some, then gently blow the smoke into the targets mouth. You know what to do from there….
A Gambling Closer: After years of the tired “Lets go watch a movie”, “Lets have an after party”, “Lets get a drink elsewhere”… I realized the real trick lies in risk. Where is risk encouraged? Las Vegas. Gambling is risky. Go to the store before you go out and buy 15 scratchers… place them on your table and take a quick photo. When it gets close to closing time , roughly 1 hour before it actually closes, ask her: “Are you a lucky person?” All girls believe they are lucky and think things are “meant to be”. Now you tell her “Great I got these scratchers from ‘work’ due to ‘[insert lie]’”. Getting lucky has just begun.
