The overarching theme as to why rich guys don’t get laid is because they don’t use money properly. They believe “money will make the women swoon”. Instead you should use money to create the “ideal man”.
Top 3 Game Mistakes:
Bragging: They run around telling everyone “I’m a banker”, “I’m a lawyer”, “I’m a doctor”. The ideal man does not tell you, he shows you. As an example, at a house party you should hold a conversation for 20 minutes and avoid all talk about your work. Laughing giggling etc, you leave to grab a drink. By the time you return she knows you’re profession… You don’t need to tell her let others do your cheer-leading for you. “why didn’t he brag” “why wasn’t he the Wall Street/Lawyer douche bag I expected” “why is he so happy” “why did I have to ask someone at this party what he does?”… You know where this is going.
Denigration: They try to one up everyone around you. I made xyz ergo I am better than you. This can even be at the college/univeristy level where you brag about the school you attend. They’re making people feel inferior which is not the same as submissive/seductive. They dislike the success of others. They bring people down. The ideal man brings men around him up.
Drinks: They over drink or buy drinks before the girl is into him. As a simple rule never buy a drink until you have already physically escalated, no kiss yet, no drink yet. Avoid over-drinking by sipping non-alcoholic drinks between mixed drinks. Side note, caffeine increases the chances of blacking out. Don’t black out.
Top 3 Physical Mistakes:
Body: Just because they’re rich doesn’t mean they can be fat. Not enough. Money can buy a high end trainer, a solid gym membership, the right supplements and the right training regimen to take your body to the max. Using that $30 dinner expense or $200 travel spending money on fattening chocolates, hamburgers and fried foods makes your body collapse and age rapidly. Control your body; don’t let your job control you.
Mental Health: To get into high paying jobs, they’ve coped and dealt with stress and are constantly thinking about work. Leave this at work. When you step out of that elevator, get ready to live in the moment. People can smell stress from a mile away. Don’t let this be you.
Style: Just because you’re wearing a Gucci shirt does not mean it looks good on you. Look around. Does the clothing fit? If you’re good with the first two points, wearing a nice fitting shirt will do you 40x better than wearing a Prada shirt that looks like it was made by MC Hammer.
Top 3 Personality Mistakes:
Interests: Can you talk about anything else besides finance, expensive things you don’t need, the latest office drama or “the textbook way to live life”? Kill yourself. You should be too busy with that trainer, with that trip to off-the-beaten path countries, reading a book about art, eating new foods and taking up new hobbies. You have the green to be an interesting person. But instead most sit around doing what they have been told to do. Boredom is death to sex-life.
Selfish: They don’t help anyone. They try to use people. Instead of asking what they can do to help another person, they think about how to extract something from them. Disgusting. Do the opposite. Go out of your way to make someone’s life better and it will help create the momentum you need to continue having new people enter your life.
Static: There is no such thing as maintaining. Static means Rigid. That’s getting worse as time passes by. Do one thing every day to improve your personality, no excuses. Even if you’re maintaining the status quo which is higher than average, by maintaining for the day you’re a step closer to average. Rich guys who are unsuccessful with women attempt to fit everything into their static mold/belief system. Do the reverse. Find the environment she wants to be a part of and create it on the fly. If she likes dirty humor, you should be good at it. If she likes proper etiquette, you should know it. If she likes swing dancing, you should already know it. You get the idea. The more environments you can fit into, the more girls you have access to.
There is improvement to be made on on every single one of these 9 elements.
